Consider MH Mediation for LGBT Pre-Nups. The absolute best way to do the pre-planning, and prenuptial discussions and agreement is by Mediation. Why? Because Mediation is calm, balanced and non-adversarial. When tension is not part of the equation, constructive decision-making takes place. Far from encouraging divorce, a well considered prenuptial agreement encourages a lasting relationship. Clients can also meet with us in Poughkeepsie.